Synopsis: Kathleen Norris had written several much loved books, yet
she couldn't drag herself out of bed in the morning, couldn't summon the energy
for her daily tasks. Even as she struggled, Norris recognized her familiar
battle with acedia, a word she had discovered in early Church text years
earlier. Fascinated by this "noonday demon", so familiar to those in
the early and medieval Church, Norris knew she must restore this forgotten but
important concept to the modern world's vernacular. An examination of acedia in
the light of psychology, spirituality, the healing powers of religious
practice, and Norris's own experience, Acedia & Me is both intimate and
historically sweeping, brimming with exasperation and reverence, sometimes
funny, often provocative, and always insightful. (from the online description)
Review:
I understood this book to be about depression and marriage and God. It was so
much more. Acedia is not depression; it is much more insidious. Norris once
again wields her words with amazing dexterity. I might write ad nauseum
about how much I adored this book and home much is helped my understanding of
my own struggles. Instead, I offer a selection of my favorite quotes from the
book.
"At its Greek root, the word acedia means the absence of care. The person afflicted by acedia refuses to care or is incapable of doing so. When life becomes too challenging and engagement with others too demanding, acedia offers a kind of spiritual morphine; you know the pain is there, yet can't rouse yourself to give a damn." (page 3)
"Whatever age we live in our perspective is always much more limited than we believe, and even as we progress in our understanding, blind spots remain that astonish and appall those who come after us." (page 35)
"“The very nature of marriage means saying yes before you
know what it will cost. Though you may say the “I do” of the wedding ritual in
all sincerity, it is the testing of that vow over time that makes you married.” (page ?)
"Because we are made in God's image, in fleeing from a
relationship with a loving God, we are also running from being our most
authentic selves.” (page ?)
"To quote Merton, "It takes real courage to recognize that we ourselves are the
cause of our own unhappiness.” (page ?)
"To people schooled in a religon that has often seemed to define sin as a grocery list of dos and don'ts, these monks can seem, as Dominican
Simon Tugwell explains in
Ways of Imperfection "rather casual about morality". They were not concerned, he writes, "that people should behave correctly according to the rules, but rather that people should be able to see their situation clearly for what it is, and so become free from the distorting perspective which underlies all our sins" (page 135)
"When I saw the film I was reminded of the helpful distinction that
Thomas Merton makes regarding
Cassian's differentiation between acedia and sadness. Merton comments that the "sadness caused by adversity and trial in social life" generally comes from "a lack of peace with
others" But acedia is far more insidious; it is "the sadness, the disgust of life, which comes fro a much deeper source - our inability to get along with
ourselves, our disunion with
God." (page 148)
Bookmarks: 8 of 10
Awards: None
ISBN: 978-1-59448-996-9
Date Finished: 11-15-2015
Pages: 334